Loving Difference

HOPE and a way forward for Neurodiverse Relationships

With research claiming that all neurodiverse relationships are unhappy and 80% end in divorce, is it any wonder that 
you’re feeling hopeless in yours? 😕🙄😢 

We want you to know that unhappiness and divorce are not inevitable in neurodiverse relationships! We’re thriving in ours and have successfully coached 100s of others using the
Loving Difference Relationship System 🥰🙂🤗


Welcome to Loving Difference!

Are you?...

In a life that you feel you can't change? Working on relationship issues on your own? Anxious or walking on eggshells? Exhausted from trying for so long? Feeling resentful and misunderstood? Tired of negative online support groups and strategies that don't work? Losing hope of things ever getting better? 
Looking for professional support that actually works?!

If you've answered yes to any or all of the above questions, you've arrived 
in the right place and we're super excited to meet you....

Loving Difference and the Loving Difference Coaching Programme are hosted by Natalie Roberts and Heather Parks, professional Coaches with experience navigating life with difference; in their relationships, as parents, in the workplace, with other family members, with friends, in the education system and in the big wide world.

Beyond the free plan, which you can access from this page, you can subscribe to the Loving Difference Programme. With professional support, focused on the right things, 
you’ll instantly feel less alone and have step by step guidance to:

✨ Make sense of the past

✨ Be YOU again

✨ Drop the resentment

✨ Relax and enjoy life

✨Be happier in your relationship

✨ Make confident decisions about the future which may include
a 'stay or go?' question you've been asking yourself

Subscribing Loving Difference members typically experience change 
in less than 10 days and 'life changing' in a matter of weeks!


Programme Features

The Loving Difference Programme is a powerful combination of professional coaching, empowering resources, individual support and inspirational live events, in a really safe and encouraging online community. We’ve taken everything we’ve learnt from our own experiences to create the step by step guidance you’re needing.

Whatever your starting point, we meet you where you are and 
support you every step by step of the way

We'll do all we can to support you to...

Be YOU! ... unmask, reverse cassandra syndrome, rediscover hope, reconnect ... THRIVE!

Questions? Ask us anything at [email protected]


How Do I Join?

If you like what you've read so far and you're looking for a place that has a hopeful and encouraging vibe to inspire the changes you're
needing right now, your first step is to...
Scroll All The Way To The Bottom Of This Page and
Select the Free Loving Difference Plan
We'll see you arrive and make sure you know your next step..

What Members Say 

'I have recently joined the Loving Difference subscription. The resources and community I have been exposed to in just over one week, have already been transformational.'

'The Loving Difference Programme has given me tools that made an immediate difference in my neurodiverse relationship. I've had a therapist for a couple of years and have learned more actionable information with you in three weeks. I mean really effective ways to look at myself and grow out of an untenable life into a thriving one.'

'The wisdom of the Coach Hosts is so empowering, plus there’s a positive, realistic 
and hopeful sense of community I’ve not experienced in other groups.’

'Before I joined Loving Difference I felt completely alone and I already feel more 
connected and empowered. It’s amazing the difference!'

'Within only a few months of subscribing, I’m starting to thrive again at last! Loving Difference is absolutely essential for supporting anyone struggling in neurodiverse relationships and it’s the only coaching and support I’ve found that really helps.'

'So glad that Loving Difference focuses on the self and the changes 
we can make without stigmatising or blaming the other.’


Our Community Culture

We embrace progressive, social and inclusive models of neurodiversity

Loving Difference welcomes anyone in a neurodiverse relationship, whatever their neuro-identity, including and not limited to autistic, ADHD, neurotypical, sensory processing difference, neuroqueer and neuro-curious.

We believe in and live the Neurodiversity Paradigm.

We acknowledge and validate all paths to awareness of neurodiversity. 
A formal assessment is not required to participate.

We want all members to feel safe and able to participate in whatever way suits them best. Healthy sharing, privacy, confidentiality and trust are essential elements of how we meet, connect, learn and support each other in Loving Difference

Beyond Loving Difference, we support the creation of a culture and a world where masking, camouflaging, shape-shifting, code-switching and passing aren't necessary to feel safe, loved and included whilst also knowing that for some these masks continue to be necessary to be safe and accepted by their families, in their workplace and in their cultures


Your Loving Difference Coaches

We're looking forward to meeting you soon!


Heather and Natalie also host the Myth Busting Neurodiverse Relationships Podcast - listen to latest and previous episodes: